Strap-On-Me Curious Leatherette Strap-On Harness – Bronze

The Strap-On-Me Curious is a leatherette strap on harness with a glossy bronze finish, adjustable thigh straps and a stretchy silicone ring that holds your choice of dildo. It comes with two belts in the box, XS–M and L–XXL, so it fits a wide range of bodies. It suits beginners and couples exploring pegging or strap-on play who want a harness that looks as good as it feels.

Two belts in one box

Sizing is often the hardest part of buying a harness, so Strap-On-Me includes two adjustable belts: one for XS to M and one for L to XXL. Pick the belt that fits the wearer's waist, then fine-tune the fit with its adjusters. Both belts adjust at the waist, and the harness has adjustable thigh straps that frame the hips and hold the base in place, so it sits close to the body instead of flopping forward. If two partners with different body sizes want to take turns wearing it, having both belts in the package means one harness can work for both of you.

Fitting your dildo

The front of the harness has a double ring made from stretchy silicone. You push the dildo through from behind until its base sits against the ring, and the stretch grips it snugly. Strap-On-Me says it's compatible with all Strap-On-Me dildos, and in general it suits any dildo with a flared base or suction cup that's wider than its shaft. Smooth bases sit flatter and wobble less than bases with balls. Blush lists the Neo Elite Hanky Panky, for example, as harness compatible. Dildos without a flared base won't stay put in any O-ring harness.

A strap on harness for pegging and more

Strap-On-Me pitches the Curious for pegging, and the snug fit and secure ring are what you want there: control, and no slipping mid-stroke. It works for any partner and any kind of strap-on sex, solo or partnered. Start by putting the harness on and walking around a little to check it doesn't sag. Then fit the dildo, tighten the thigh straps so the base presses close to the pubic bone, and add plenty of lube to the dildo before you begin. Take it slowly at first; using hips instead of arms takes some getting used to.

The spare belt as a restraint

Here's a fun extra. The belt you aren't wearing doesn't have to stay in the box: Strap-On-Me suggests using it as a soft handcuff to bind a partner's wrists. Wrap it loosely enough to slide two fingers under, keep the fastening easy to reach, and never leave anyone restrained alone.

Material and care

The harness is imitation leather, made from 95% PU with small amounts of nylon, nitrile and spandex, in a bronze finish. Wipe it down after use with a damp cloth and a little mild soap, then let it air-dry flat; don't soak it or put it in the washing machine. Wash the silicone ring separately if lube gets on it. Store the harness out of direct sunlight to keep the finish looking good.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Leatherette Harness collection
• Model: Curious
• Type: adjustable strap-on harness with thigh straps
• Material: imitation leather, 95% PU, 3% nylon, 1% nitrile, 1% spandex
• Ring: double stretchy silicone ring
• Sizes: two belts included, XS–M and L–XXL
• Compatibility: all Strap-On-Me dildos (maker's statement)
• Colour: Bronze

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