Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On – XL Night Blue

The Strap-On-Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On is a remote-controlled strapless strap-on with three motors, here in size XL and a deep night blue. The wearer holds the shorter end inside, so there's no harness, while the longer, flexible end is for their partner, and both feel the vibrations. It suits couples who already enjoy strap-on play and want a larger, vibrating option.

How a strapless strap-on works

Instead of a harness, the wearer holds the toy in place with their own body. One end is shorter and bulbous; it goes inside the wearer's vagina, where the pelvic muscles grip it. The longer end extends forward like a strap-on dildo for penetrating a partner. With no straps to adjust, you skip the fiddly setup, and every movement of the wearer's hips moves both ends. Strap-On-Me's Bendable Strap-on is one of the better-known harness-free designs, and the Multi Orgasm is its vibrating edition.

Three motors, shared pleasure

The big change from the original is power. Three separate motors sit inside the silicone, and Strap-On-Me offers three vibration modes and three intensities. Because the vibrations run through the body of the toy, the wearer feels them inside as well as the partner on the receiving end, so this is a strap on vibrator that gives both people something rather than one doing all the work. The flexible, bendable shaft lets you adjust the angle to suit your bodies and positions.

Remote control

A wireless remote handles the settings, with a range of up to 10 metres. In practice that means either partner can hold it: the wearer can keep their hands free for balance, or the receiving partner can take charge of the intensity. It also makes solo use easy, since you don't need to reach the toy to change modes. Strap-On-Me lists the power type as USB plus a CR2032 coin cell, which most likely powers the remote.

Sizing: is XL right?

This is the largest of four sizes. The XL measures 24.2 x 4.7 x 9.8 cm and weighs 0.51 kg. The brand doesn't give separate insertable lengths for each end, so compare the overall size with toys you already own before choosing. The wearer's end has to be comfortable to hold for a whole session; if you're new to strapless strap-ons, a smaller size is easier to keep in place while you learn. XL suits couples who know they enjoy a fuller size on both ends.

Tips for first use

Use plenty of water-based lube on the wearer's end before insertion, then wipe the base so it isn't slippery. Strapless designs stay put more easily when the wearer is engaged: start slowly, in positions where the wearer is on top or kneeling, and keep a hand near the base until you've got the feel of it. Add lube to the longer end separately. Holding it in place gets easier with practice.

Charging and care

A full charge takes about 120 minutes and gives about 70 minutes of play. It's IPX7 waterproof, so you can use it in the shower and wash it under the tap with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Dry it fully before charging. Water-based lube only.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap-On (size XL)
• Type: strapless, harness-free vibrating strap-on with remote
• Material: 95% silicone, 5% ABS
• Size: 24.2 x 4.7 x 9.8 cm; 0.51 kg
• Vibration: 3 motors, 3 modes, 3 intensities
• Remote range: up to 10 m
• Battery: rechargeable by USB; about 120 min charge, 70 min use
• Water resistance: IPX7
• Sizes: S, M, L, XL; colours: black, blue, fuchsia
• Colour: night blue

Compare more strapless strap-ons and the Strap-On-Me range, or read our guide to sex toys for couples.