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XR Relax is a water-based desensitizing anal lube with lidocaine and a tapered nozzle tip. The silky liquid reduces friction, and the lidocaine gives a light numbing effect to take the edge off sensation during anal play. The nozzle lets you place it exactly where it's needed with little mess. This 8 oz bottle suits experienced users who already know their limits and want a slightly duller, more relaxed feel, and it should be used with care.

Numbing lube: what to know first

Lidocaine is a local anaesthetic, so this desensitizing anal lube reduces how much you feel, including the discomfort that normally tells you to slow down, add lube or stop. That's why many educators steer beginners away from numbing products. If you choose XR Relax, use the smallest amount that works, go slower than usual, and stop at any sharp or lingering pain. Never use it to push past a size or pace your body isn't ready for. Patch-test a little on your inner arm first, and don't use it if you're allergic to local anaesthetics.

Using the nozzle tip

The tapered nozzle lets you apply lube just inside the opening rather than only on the surface. Wipe the tip clean, insert it gently a short way, and give a light squeeze. Remove it, then apply a little more to your toy or partner. Give it a few minutes to take effect. Because it's water-based, it will slowly absorb; reapply plain water-based lube for extra glide rather than adding more numbing product during a session.

Compatibility and care

The water-based formula is generally compatible with latex condoms and silicone toys. Clean the nozzle with warm water after each use and keep the cap on. Wash hands after applying so it doesn't numb anywhere else, and keep it away from eyes and mouth.

Specifications

  • Brand: XR, Relax
  • Type: water-based desensitizing anal lubricant with nozzle tip
  • Active ingredient: lidocaine (concentration not listed)
  • Size: 8 fl oz
  • Made in the USA

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Frequently Asked Questions

Helpful answers about XR Relax Desensitizing Anal Lubricant with Nozzle Tip – 8 oz.

What does XR Relax Desensitizing Anal Lubricant do?

XR Relax combines a silky water-based lube with lidocaine, which lightly numbs the area where it's applied. It reduces friction and dulls sensation during anal play. It doesn't relax muscles or make anything bigger fit; it only lowers how much you feel.

Is it safe to use a numbing lube like XR Relax?

Use it with caution. Numbing lube like XR Relax can mask the pain that warns you to slow down, so it's easier to go too quickly. Use a small amount, warm up thoroughly, stop at any sharp pain, and skip it entirely if you're new to anal or allergic to local anaesthetics.

How do I use the XR Relax nozzle tip?

Clean the nozzle, insert it gently just inside the opening, squeeze lightly and remove it. Wait a few minutes for XR Relax to take effect, then add regular water-based lube to your toy or partner. Rinse the tip with warm water after every use.

Is XR Relax water-based, and can I use it with silicone toys?

Yes. XR Relax is water-based, so it's generally safe with silicone toys and latex condoms. Like any water-based lube, it absorbs over time, so top up with plain water-based lube rather than adding more of the numbing formula.

Should beginners use a desensitizing anal lube?

Most beginners do better without one. Learning what feels good, and what doesn't, is part of getting comfortable with anal play. Start with a thick, non-numbing lube and a small toy. XR Relax is better left for people who already know their limits.

How big is the XR Relax bottle?

XR Relax comes in an 8 fl oz bottle with a tapered nozzle tip. Since you only need a small amount of numbing lube per session, one bottle lasts a long time. Keep the cap closed and store it at room temperature.

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