Stainless Steel Command Me Cock Ring (45mm)

Smaller and snugger than its 50mm sibling, the Rouge Stainless Steel Command Me Cock Ring (45mm) is a plain steel cock ring with a built-in O-ring for hooking on a lead or restraint. It suits people who already know a rigid ring fits them and want something with a dominant, hands-on edge.

Why steel feels different

Polished stainless steel has real heft and stays completely smooth. Expect a cool first touch that settles to body temperature quickly. Unlike rubber or silicone pleasure rings, it won't give at all, which is exactly why getting the size right matters so much.

Measuring for a 45mm ring

Rouge doesn't state whether 45mm is the inside or outside measurement, so take your own. Measure around the base while soft (include the testicles if you'll wear it behind them), then divide by 3.14. If your number lands close to 45mm or above, choose the 50mm Command Me instead; with metal, too tight is the mistake to avoid. Our sizing guide has more measuring tips.

Using the O-ring

The O-ring turns a simple band into part of a power-play scene. A partner can loop a finger through it or attach a lead, and the wearer follows. Keep movements slow and pressure light. No strength rating is given for the O-ring, so it isn't meant to take weight.

Fitting tips and limits

Slide it on while soft, with lube. Wear it for short spells at first, roughly 20 minutes, and remove it at the first sign of numbness, pain, cold or colour change. If it's reluctant to come off, wait until fully soft, add more lube and work it free gently.

Cleaning

Wash it with soap and warm water or a toy cleaner after each use, then towel it dry, since water can sit where the O-ring meets the band.

Specifications

• Brand: Rouge
• Material: stainless steel
• Size: 45mm as listed (inner or outer diameter not specified)
• Feature: attached O-ring for leads and attachments
• Power: none
• Also available: 50mm

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