Stainless Steel Command Me Cock Ring (50mm)

The Rouge Stainless Steel Command Me Cock Ring in 50mm is a solid metal cock ring with a small O-ring attached, so it can be worn on its own or clipped to a lead or other restraint. It's the larger of the two Command Me sizes, and the cool, polished steel gives a very different feel from stretchy silicone.

What a rigid steel ring is like to wear

Steel doesn't stretch, so the fit is set by the size you choose rather than by how far the ring gives. It starts cool against the skin and warms within a few minutes. The surface is smooth, with no seams to catch on hair, and you'll notice the weight of the metal in a way you don't with rubber. Some people love that constant, solid presence. If you'd rather roll a ring on and off, silicone is the easier choice.

The O-ring and the "Command Me" idea

The attached O-ring is what sets this design apart. It gives a partner a point to hook a finger through or to clip a leash onto, such as our purple leather lead with chain. Keep any tugging slow and gentle: the ring is there for control and teasing, not for pulling.

Is 50mm the right cock ring size?

Rouge lists this ring as 50mm but doesn't say whether that's the inner or outer diameter, so measure before you buy. Wrap a soft tape or a strip of paper around the base of the shaft while soft (and behind the testicles too, if you plan to wear it there), then divide that circumference by 3.14 to get the diameter you need. With a rigid ring, slightly roomy beats snug. If 50mm sounds loose for you, the 45mm Command Me ring is the same design one size down, and our sizing guide walks through measuring in more detail.

Putting it on and taking it off

Fit a steel ring while fully soft, with plenty of water-based lube. For a behind-the-testicles fit, ease one testicle through at a time, then the shaft. Keep early sessions short (around 20 minutes is a common starting limit) and take it off straight away if you notice numbness, coldness, pain or a change in skin colour. Don't sleep in it.

Care

Stainless steel is non-porous, so warm water with mild soap or a toy cleaner is all it needs. Dry it fully before storing, especially around the joint where the O-ring hangs.

Specifications

• Brand: Rouge
• Material: stainless steel
• Size: 50mm as listed (inner or outer diameter not specified)
• Feature: attached O-ring for leads and attachments
• Power: none
• Also available: 45mm

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