Strap-On-Me Tapping Dildo Wave – Night Blue

Most motorised dildos buzz. The Strap-On-Me Tapping Dildo Wave knocks instead: a tapping dildo whose rounded tip pulses against you in a steady double beat, so the sensation lands as rhythmic pressure rather than a hum. It suits anyone who finds ordinary vibration too surface-level and wants something that feels more like a fingertip drumming on one spot. The Night Blue finish is a deep, inky shade with a gentle wave running down the shaft.

How a tapping dildo differs from vibration

Inside the bulb sits a mechanism that strikes both sides of the head in quick succession. Strap-On-Me calls it a double tap. Pressed against the front wall, it delivers a firm, repeating nudge you can feel well beyond the tip itself, which is why people who shrug off buzzing toys often take to it. There are five power levels, stepping up from a soft patter to a much more insistent knock, all run from one button near the base. It's a different kind of stimulation, not simply a stronger one, so give yourself a session or two to learn how it feels.

Shape and size

The insertable part measures about 6 in (15.3 cm), with a listed diameter of roughly 1.46 in (3.7 cm). That puts it in the middle ground: long enough to reach the G-spot or prostate comfortably, slim enough that it doesn't call for a lot of warm-up. The wave along the shaft adds gentle texture on the way in and out, and the head carries a forward curve that keeps the tapping aimed where you want it. If you're coming from fingers or a slender vibrator, start on the lowest level and add lube generously.

Hands-free, held or harnessed

A suction cup forms the base. Press it onto tile, glass or another smooth, sealed surface and you can ride it at your own pace while the tip does the work. In the hand, the cup gives you a broad end to hold and steer. Strap-On-Me suggests pairing the Wave with one of its own harnesses; the flat base sits behind an O-ring, so the toy can also be worn by a partner. Check that your O-ring is snug around the shaft before you rely on it.

Charging and water

It charges through a magnetic USB cable that clips onto contact points, so there's no open port. A full charge takes about two and a half hours and gives roughly an hour of use. The toy is listed as fully waterproof, which makes rinsing simple and means the shower is an option for suction-cup play.

Lube and care

Silicone pairs most happily with a water-based lube; silicone lubes can leave a tacky film on silicone toys. Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, let it dry fully, then store it in a pouch away from other toys.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me (Lovely Planet)
• Material: silicone
• Insertable length: about 6 in (15.3 cm)
• Diameter: about 1.46 in (3.7 cm)
• Motion: double tapping at the head, 5 power levels, single button
• Base: suction cup, harness-friendly flat base
• Charging: magnetic USB, about 2.5 hours; up to 1 hour of use
• Waterproof: yes
• Colour: Night Blue. Also in Coral Pink

Want to compare shapes and sizes first? Our dildo buying guide walks through the options, and the full Strap-On-Me range includes harnesses that pair with this toy.