Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit with Case

The Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit from Blush is a complete BDSM kit packed into a lockable vegan leather case. It covers the essentials of a first scene, from blindfold and cuffs to a gag, a slapper and a small vibrator, so new and intermediate players can try several kinds of play without buying piece by piece. The case is what sets it apart: it has a carry handle and working metal combination locks, so the whole set stays private at home or in a suitcase.

What's inside

• Blindfold to take sight away and sharpen every touch.
• Breathable silicone ball gag with holes so air flows more easily than through a solid ball.
• Slapper for light to moderate impact.
• Two wrist restraints with buckles and two ankle restraints, finished with a bow tie design.
• Collar with leash for power play and guiding a partner around the room.
• One-speed bullet vibrator to add pleasure to the tension.

Building a first scene with this BDSM kit

Start by choosing a safe word together, which is the idea the kit is named after. Pick a word that would never come up by accident, and agree that saying it stops everything. Begin with just the blindfold and the wrist restraints. Buckle the cuffs so you can slide a finger between strap and skin, then tease with fingertips and the bullet before you bring in the slapper.

When you do, warm up with soft taps on fleshy areas such as the buttocks and the backs of the thighs, and build slowly. Keep away from the spine, kidneys, joints and face. Check in often; a simple "colour" system (green for more, yellow for slow down, red for stop) is easy to remember mid-scene.

Collar and leash play

The collar and leash are more about headspace than restraint. Fasten the collar loosely enough to slip two fingers underneath, and use the leash to guide rather than pull; a slow tug toward the bed says plenty. Never tie the leash to furniture or leave it attached while your partner is restrained.

Using the ball gag safely

A gag takes away the spoken safe word, so agree on a non-verbal signal first, such as dropping a held object or tapping three times. Keep gagged time short at the start, and take it out straight away if your partner seems uncomfortable or struggles to breathe through the nose. Drooling is normal; keep a towel nearby.

Materials and the case

Blush makes the case and the restraints from phthalate-free vegan leather with nickel-free hardware. The suitcase measures 21 × 12 × 3.75 inches, slim enough to slide under a bed or into a wardrobe, and the combination locks keep curious visitors out.

Care

Wipe the vegan leather with a damp cloth and mild soap, then let it air-dry; don't soak it. Wash the silicone gag in warm soapy water after every use. Blush doesn't list a waterproof rating for the bullet, so wipe it clean rather than rinsing it under the tap.

Specifications

• Brand: Blush, Temptasia collection
• Pieces: blindfold, silicone ball gag, slapper, 2 wrist restraints with buckle, 2 ankle restraints, collar with leash, one-speed bullet vibrator, lockable case
• Materials: phthalate-free vegan leather, nickel-free metal hardware, silicone gag
• Case: 21 × 12 × 3.75 in, carry handle, metal combination locks

Read our guide to exploring BDSM safely before your first scene, compare more bondage kits, or see the rest of the Blush line-up.