XR The Stuffer Fisting Hand Dildo – Flesh

XR The Stuffer is a fisting dildo moulded as a life-size human hand, with fingers grouped together into a tapered tip so you can work up to the stretch of fisting solo. It's for experienced users who want to try fisting vaginally or anally without a partner's hand, or practise before they do. The suction cup base lets you ride it hands-free, and the flesh tone keeps the realistic look.

Shaped like a hand, built for a first try

The Stuffer is a life-size replica of a human hand and forearm, with realistic knuckles, fingers and creases. The key detail for anyone new to fisting is the tip: the fingers are pressed together and taper to a point, the way you'd shape your hand to enter. That gives you a gradual stretch from narrow fingertips to the full width of the knuckles instead of a blunt start. As it moves, the knuckles and finger shapes massage the entrance, which is a big part of the appeal.

Size and what to expect

It's 8.5 inches long in total, with 7.5 inches insertable, and 2.9 inches across at its widest. That widest point is the knuckles, and it's the part that takes patience. Most people will spend a good while working towards it, and some sessions will stop short of it, which is normal. If 2.9 inches is well beyond anything you've used before, build up with a graduated set of plugs or dildos first. For both vaginal and anal use, a long warm-up with fingers and smaller toys makes the biggest difference.

Using a fisting dildo safely

Use far more lube than usual and reapply often. Start with only the fingertips, breathe slowly, and let your body relax around the toy rather than pushing through resistance. Go slowly past the knuckles, and back off at any sharp pain. For anal use especially, never force it; discomfort is a signal to stop for the day. The flared base at the wrist keeps the toy from going in too far and gives you something solid to hold for removal, which should be as slow as insertion.

Riding it hands-free

The base is a strong suction cup. Mount it on a smooth, non-porous surface such as a tiled wall, a glass door or a sealed floor, wet both the cup and the surface, press firmly and twist slightly. Lowering yourself onto it gives you full control over depth and pace, often more control than using your hand. The base also gives a partner a sure grip when they're the one guiding it.

Lube and cleaning

XR lists it as compatible with silicone and water-based lubricants. Silicone lube lasts longer, which helps a lot with a toy of this size; a thick water-based lube rinses away more easily. Clean it after every use with mild soap or a toy cleaner, using a soft brush in the creases between the fingers. PVC is more porous than silicone, so wash it thoroughly and let it dry completely before storing it on its own.

Specifications

• Brand: XR, The Stuffer
• Type: hand-shaped fisting dildo with suction cup
• Material: phthalate-free PVC
• Length: 8.5 in total, 7.5 in insertable
• Widest diameter: 2.9 in
• Use: vaginal or anal
• Lube: silicone or water-based
• Colour: flesh

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