Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-On – Medium Purple

The Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-On is a strapless, vibrating strap on in soft purple silicone, driven by three independent motors and a wireless remote. One end is a curved bulb the wearer holds inside the vagina, resting on the G-spot and clitoris; the other is a bendable shaft for a partner. This Medium is the smallest of three sizes, so it suits couples trying a vibrating strap-on for the first time and wearers who want both partners to feel the buzz.

How a strapless vibrating strap on works

There is no harness. The wearer inserts the bulb end, which is shaped to sit against the G-spot while the base presses on the clitoris, and holds it in with the pelvic floor muscles. The shaft then extends forward for the receiving partner. With three motors spread across the toy, the wearer feels vibration internally and on the clitoris, while the partner feels it through the shaft against the G-spot or P-spot. That shared buzz is the main reason to choose this over a plain dildo in a harness: both people get stimulation from the same toy at the same time.

Bendable shaft with position memory

The shaft is very flexible and holds the angle you bend it to. That means you can adjust the curve to suit the wearer's anatomy and your favourite position, so the shaft points where it needs to rather than straight out. Bend it up for a G-spot or P-spot angle, flatten it slightly for rear entry, or set it lower if the wearer is on top. A small change in angle makes a big difference, so try a few before you start.

Getting started

Charge it fully first. Use plenty of water-based lube on both ends; the bulb goes in more easily when the wearer is already aroused and relaxed. Insert the bulb, squeeze the pelvic floor muscles to hold it, and check it feels secure before your partner joins. Start slowly with shallow thrusts: strapless strap-ons need a little practice, and steady, rolling hip movements work better than big strokes. If it slips, hold the base with a hand for support. Positions with the wearer on top, or spooning, are easier to control at first. For anal play, lube the shaft generously and go slowly.

Remote, modes and battery

The remote controls 3 vibration modes and 3 intensities from up to 10 metres, so either partner can switch settings without stopping. A full charge takes about 120 minutes and gives around 60 minutes of play. Charging is by USB, and the listing also mentions a CR2032 coin cell. It is IPX7 waterproof, so it handles the shower and is easy to rinse.

Choosing the size

Strap-On-Me makes this toy in M, L and XL. The Medium measures 24.2 x 4.36 x 9.45 cm overall, which includes both the bulb and the shaft. The maker does not split that into separate insertable lengths, so if you are unsure, Medium is the safest place to start for both partners.

Care

Wash it before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Use water-based lube only, as silicone lube can damage silicone. Dry it fully and store it away from other silicone toys.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Vibrating Bendable Strap-On (3 motors)
• Type: strapless vibrating strap-on with remote
• Material: silicone and ABS
• Dimensions (M): 24.2 x 4.36 x 9.45 cm / 9.52 x 1.71 x 3.72 in overall
• Vibration: 3 motors, 3 modes, 3 intensities
• Remote range: 10 metres
• Battery: rechargeable via USB; 120 min charge, about 60 min use
• Water resistance: IPX7
• Colour: Purple; size Medium (also in Black and Vanilla, and in L and XL)

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