Briefs and jockstrap styles that wear like underwear, adjustable two-strap harnesses, and thigh harnesses that hold a dildo on the leg. If you'd rather skip the harness, see strapless strap-ons.
Will any dildo fit my harness?
It needs a flared base and a shaft that suits the O-ring size. Many harnesses include several rings. Browse harness-compatible dildos, or buy a ready-made pair from strap-ons.
Which harness material is best?
Leather is sturdy and holds a dildo firmly. Vegan leather looks similar and wipes clean. Nylon, neoprene and underwear-style fabrics are lighter, softer and usually washable. Sportsheets and Strap-On-Me cover most styles.
Can a harness hold a vibrator too?
Many harnesses have a small pocket behind the O-ring for a bullet vibrator, so the wearer feels vibration too. You can also use a vibrating dildo with a flared base.
How do I find the right harness size?
Adjustable strap harnesses fit a wide range of bodies. Briefs and jockstrap styles come in sizes, so measure your hips and check the size chart on the product page.
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