Strap-On-Me Unique Lingerie Harness – One Size – Grey

Most strap-on harnesses have one ring; the Strap-On-Me Unique in grey has two. Both are stretchy silicone rings set into the front of a pair of high-cut lingerie briefs, so you can choose where the dildo sits or experiment with more than one toy. It's a one-size strap-on harness with adjustable straps, made in a soft stretch fabric that looks like lingerie rather than gear.

Two rings at the front

The two rings are what give the Unique its name and its flexibility. Use one ring for a single dildo and the other stays flat and out of the way. Some wearers prefer one ring over the other for angle, depending on their body and the toy. Others use both at once for creative play. Each ring stretches to grip a dildo's base, and silicone holds well against silicone toys without pinching the fabric.

Fitting a one-size harness

The Unique is sold as one size. An elastic waistband sits at the natural waist, and adjustable straps at the hips let you tighten or loosen the fit. Step in like underwear, pull it up so the rings rest over your pubic bone, then adjust the hip straps until the fabric lies flat without digging in. A snug fit is what keeps the dildo steady, so tighten the straps a little more than you would for everyday underwear. If your hips are at the far ends of the range, check the strap adjustment before relying on it for long sessions.

Fabric and look

The briefs are made of a stretch microfibre (75% nylon, 25% elastane) that moves with you. The cut frames the hips and leaves the back open, so it's as much a piece of sexy lingerie as a harness. The smoky grey is understated and works with most skin tones; it's also available in red for a bolder look.

Choosing a dildo

Pick a dildo with a defined, flared base or a suction cup, so it can't pull through the ring. Light to medium dildos feel most stable in a fabric harness. Vibrating toys with a flared base also work, as long as the controls stay reachable. Strap-On-Me's own dildos are made to fit its harnesses, and our harness-compatible dildos are another easy place to start.

Who it suits

The Unique works well for couples who want a harness that doubles as lingerie, for wearers who like to experiment with toy position, and for anyone who finds buckles fiddly. Since it's one size, it's also an easy gift when you don't know someone's exact measurements. If you plan long, vigorous sessions with a heavy dildo, a buckled harness with leg straps will hold the toy steadier than stretch fabric.

Washing

Remove the toys first and clean them separately. Wash the harness in a mesh lingerie bag on a gentle cycle, or by hand in cool water with mild detergent, then air-dry. Heat from a dryer or radiator weakens elastane, so hang it instead.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Unique lingerie harness
• Colour: grey (also in red)
• Size: one size, adjustable hip straps and elastic waistband
• Material: 75% nylon, 25% elastane microfibre
• Rings: two stretchy silicone rings at the front
• Compatibility: dildos with a flared or suction-cup base
• Care: machine- or hand-washable
• Not included: dildo

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