Strap-On-Me Curious Leatherette Strap-On Harness – Metallic Blue

A shiny metallic blue finish turns the Strap-On-Me Curious into a strap-on harness you'll actually want to be seen in. Underneath the look it's a practical, fully adjustable leatherette design with a waist belt, two thigh straps and a double silicone ring at the front, and the box holds two belts so the same harness covers sizes XS through XXL. It suits first-time wearers, pegging couples and anyone moving on from a basic elastic harness.

Why there are two belts in the box

Rather than guessing your size, you choose between an XS–M belt and an L–XXL belt and swap in the one that fits. That also makes it easy to share between partners of different builds. The spare belt doesn't go to waste either: Strap-On-Me suggests using it as a wrist cuff, so the same set can add a little light restraint to a scene.

How the double ring holds a dildo

Instead of a fixed metal O-ring, the front of the Curious has a double ring in stretchy silicone. The dildo's base pushes through from the inside, and the stretch grips the shaft just above the base, so it sits firmly without needing exactly the right ring size. Strap-On-Me says it's compatible with its own dildos. Any dildo you use needs a flared base or flange wide enough to stop it slipping through the rings; toys with a straight, flat end won't stay put. Our harness-compatible dildos all have that kind of base.

Getting the fit right

Put the belt on first, fastened at your natural waist or slightly lower, then pull the thigh straps up under your buttocks and adjust each one. The aim is snug enough that the dildo doesn't flop or tilt when you move, but loose enough that the straps don't dig in when you sit or kneel. The thigh straps also frame the hips nicely, which is part of the appeal. Expect to readjust after a few minutes of movement, since leatherette relaxes slightly as it warms up. Tuck any loose strap ends back through their keepers so they don't flap against your partner.

A dildo harness for pegging and more

For pegging, a firm fit at the front matters more than anything, because it gives the wearer control over angle and depth. Start slowly, use plenty of lube on the dildo, and let the receiving partner set the pace at first. The Curious works for strap-on play of any kind, and because the dildo is removable, you can try different shapes and sizes with the same harness.

Cleaning and storage

Leatherette can't go in the washing machine. After use, remove the dildo and wash it on its own, then clean the straps using a soft cloth dampened with a little mild soap, paying attention to the inside of the straps. Let it air-dry completely before storing. Don't submerge it. Keep it flat or loosely rolled so the metallic coating isn't creased sharply.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Curious leatherette harness
• Material: 95% PU, 3% nylon, 1% nitrile, 1% spandex
• Belts: two included, XS–M and L–XXL; the spare can be used as a wrist cuff
• Straps: adjustable waist belt and two adjustable thigh straps, buckle closures
• Dildo attachment: double stretchy silicone ring; compatible with Strap-On-Me dildos
• Dildo: not included
• Colour: metallic blue. Also in bronze, fuchsia and rose gold holographic

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