STRAP-ON-ME Diva Harness Lingerie – Night Blue

The Strap-On-Me Diva is a lingerie harness first and strap-on gear second: lace high-waisted briefs with suspender straps, a slit at the back and a discreet stretchy silicone ring at the front that holds a dildo when you want it to. This listing is size Small in Night Blue, a deep midnight shade that reads almost black in low light. It's for anyone who wants their strap-on to look like something you'd choose to wear anyway.

Lingerie you can play in

The body is a soft microfibre and tulle panel with lace across the hips, cut to sit close like a second skin. An elastic waistband draws in at the waist, and adjustable suspenders hang down to clip onto stockings (sold separately). At the back, a slit gives a peek without baring everything. Without a toy in place, the front ring is barely noticeable, so the Diva works as stand-alone kinky lingerie for a night in.

Using the Diva as a strap-on harness

The front ring is made of stretchy silicone. Push the dildo's shaft through from the inside until the base sits flat behind the ring and against your body. Strap-On-Me says it works with dildos that have a wide, flared or suction-cup base, including its own range. Because the ring is set into stretch fabric rather than webbing, it moves a little more than a buckled harness. Smaller and mid-size dildos with a pronounced flange feel most stable; very heavy toys may droop.

Choosing size Small

Unlike one-size harnesses, the Diva comes in fitted sizes from Small to XL. Small suits people who usually wear a small in briefs or lingerie. If you're between sizes, or prefer firmer support for thrusting, size up for comfort but expect less tension on the ring, or size down for a snugger hold. The Medium, Large and XL come in the same Night Blue.

Caring for lace and stretch

Remove the dildo and wash that separately. The harness is machine-washable: put it in a mesh lingerie bag, use a gentle cycle with cool water and mild detergent, and hang it to dry. Skip the dryer and fabric softener, both of which shorten the life of elastic and lace. Fasten the suspender clips before washing so they don't snag the lace.

Putting it on

Fit the harness before adding the toy. Step in, pull the briefs up so the ring sits centred over your pubic bone, and smooth the lace flat across the hips. Clip the suspenders to your stockings and adjust their length so they pull gently without lifting the waistband. Then push the dildo through from the inside. A small dab of lube around the ring makes this easier, as silicone grips silicone firmly when dry.

Who it suits

Pick the Diva for pegging or strap-on play where looking and feeling sexy matters as much as stability, and for wearers who find leather or nylon harnesses bulky. If you want rock-solid control for long, vigorous sessions or a heavy dildo, a buckled harness with a firm ring will hold steadier.

Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me, Diva lingerie harness
• Colour: Night Blue
• Size: Small (also in M, L, XL)
• Materials: microfibre and tulle with lace
• Ring: one stretchy silicone ring at the front
• Features: elastic waistband, adjustable suspenders, back slit
• Compatibility: dildos with a flared or suction-cup base
• Care: machine-washable
• Not included: dildo, stockings

See the Strap-On-Me range and pick a toy from our harness-compatible dildos.